This is the first of several informational pieces on perfectionism.
On the occasion I happen to ask someone if they are a perfectionist, the response varies from a strong “. . . no,” to a strong “. . . yes,” to “. . . I know that perfection isn’t realistic, but I guess I do aim for it.” This is often followed with the disclaimer, “But, I’m not a perfectionist in everything I do.”
Perfectionism is not about being perfect.